It has been 6 months since the 1st time we started our conversation. I treasure every single word that bonding us together. It is the start. The introduction. The beginning of everything. The get-to-know-each-other.
Our conversation begin with a game. A game of questions and answer. And the game is start with the idea of; people can see your personality from the way you asking questions and the way you answering the questions. words, it shows everything. so beware of your saying. cz if you can create a friend by your statement. you, might as well can create an enemy (me, 2011)
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"If someone comes to you, and propose you, will you accept it? (He is your friend who hang out with you)"-He started the game.
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"Hurm, I dont think there's such person among my friends. But if it does exist, it will be my pleasure to accept, IF he really shows his willingness to accept me the way I am & will care, will love only me for the rest of his life. Really hope I can open up my heart for such person."-I answered. And this is honest.
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"Life ain't about romance. Agree?"- The 2nd Q.
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"As for my logic. I do agree. But as for my very fantasies imaginative affected from sailormoon series, i'm hoping for something very romantic & so like fairytale. KAHKAHKAH."
My answer hit me back now. Yes, my love story is so like a fairytale. And I pray hard to make it comes true. If i know this would happen, I definitely wont hoping for something unreal.
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"Are you better than your past or do you want to ask Doraemon to lend you a time machine? If so, which time will you choose to go back?"
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I'm good with the way I am now & i'll make sure that I'll be a better person now & then. With Allah's will. So there's no need for a doraemon."
but I want a Doreamon now. because i want to be with the person that makes me feel alive.
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"Is it fair to judge people by not knowing the exact plan and the whole overview; but by judging them by the surface?"
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"Nope! Totally disagree. But sometimes we can't control ourselves from having this dirty thought"
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"Man, are given a quota to marry 4 women in the same time. What is your opinion if man apply this advantage in before-marriage relationship? (which means he is having a relationship more than a woman where he has girlfriend but the others are spare-parts?"
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A very serious Q i guess. That time, I didn't know that he was a non-muslim. He might be curious in muslim's polygamy system though he already learned Islam for years before he converted afterwards.
"what is the condition to be a good husband in a polygamy? Is to be fair isn't it? How can a girlfriend & a spare-part stand on a same level since a spare-part is not a girlfriend? Poor that spare-part. Being played by irresponsible creature."-I answered.
i don't know whether my reply really breaks his curiosity in islamic polygamy system or not. But i hope it does.
And i miss this game
